Why do the words "gossip" and "jealous" always have to go with "girls?" I hate both of those yet try as I might I seem to get stuck in them all the time. It's like a constant cycle that I don't understand. No matter how much you trust someone I think you just get worried and then jealousy seems to ensue followed by gossiping about the person you're jealous of to make you "feel better." Why is that? It reminds me of that verse that Paul wrote about "knowing the things he needs to do and doing the things he hates to do." Grr